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Jennifer L.W. Fink's avatar

My mom (age 86 now) always felt bad b/c she didn't wash the walls every year, b/c HER mom always did. (Never mind that my mom had 6 kids and went back to school & got 2 Master's degrees & worked as the Director of Nursing at big nursing homes, with a less-than-supportive husband). I'm I didn't inherit the cleaning guilt.

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Denise Schipani's avatar

Your mother sounds like my mother. Mine never washed walls, but she cleans things I never think of cleaning, consistently and thoroughly, even at 81 and even after a bout of cancer. She's unstoppable. Funny story, years ago now I impulsively stopped at the house I grew up in, which my parents sold in the late 90s. So this was a good 15 years into the new owners' life there. I asked if I could look around, for the nostalgia. The owner hesitated for a second and then said, "well, it's not that neat right now. I don't keep house like your mother did." And I said, "don't worry, no one keeps house like my mother." I'm betting she never forgot moving into a house with two young kids and basically not having to deep clean anything first.

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